爱情，可以是甜蜜的，也可以是痛苦的。。

我自认我的爱情经验不比别人丰富，
但是却很确定对这种微妙的感觉有许多道理。。。
相信我有些朋友都知道吧。。
因为我听了许多人的“故事”以及“过程”。。
渐渐的也对这东西有了许多的理论。。
观点上的也变得和别人不一样。。

我，在爱情上，是个失败者。。
这不是悲观，而是事实。。
根据我一个朋友说，
我若不改一改自己的习惯，我就不可以追求我爱的女孩。。
可能他是对的。。
但若我做出改变，我，就不是我了。。

爱情，所双方面都信任对方，
礼让对方，包容对方等等，
他们将会度过甜蜜的时刻。。

相反的，若其中一方不信任，不包容，不礼让。。
我不能保证这会是痛苦的时刻，（可能有些人享受这样的过程）
但是会一直出现不愉快的场面。。

爱情，可以~
来得快。。 （不代表去的也快...
或
死都不来。。

有些人，爱情上失意了后，
不久就可以订下一个目标了。。
那种人，我订他们为“比较快恢复的人”
有些人，则需要长久的时间来康复。。

我是属于要长久时间来恢复的。。
(感觉像植物人一样-。-)

爱情，果然很深奥呢。。


这则文章是出自感觉，没什么意思的。。
明天自己看一看大概会不了解自己在写什么，
也不知道为什么会有感觉写如此让人不明了得东西吧。。

Humans Are Scared To Face Changes

Human,sometime are jus happy with their current situation..
They wish things goes on like normal,
With no changes..

This is jus because,
Human are scared to face changes in their life..

Well,few days ago,
when i get back to class,
my classmate told me tat i gotta change my class from TE4 to TE5

Well,it doesnt seems like a problem to me,
Cause staying at TE5,can know lots of new ppl..
But jus some of the coursemate who being change from their own class to TE5,
Show a very either sad or angry face..

Well,no matter we are TE4 or TE5,we still manage to study rite?
so it wil be ok then..haha

hmm..this changes are still acceptable..for me.

This few days will be the last few days before test..
After test,holiday about 3 weeks for foundation student like us,
But 3 month for degree..

Every1 from my floor,like Benjamin or kai men,
They are going to move out someday,
and Ah bong is gotta go setapak thr to continue his studies
At that time,we will separate from each other..
narh...i gotta miss the time we have together..
either during we all go out to eat or we playing CS.. 3ppl Vs 15 bot with hard lv
haha...

but i jus hope,
"How nice if we all manage to stay together.."

but i cannot be so selfish,
hope we all can meet together someday after we separated ba~

Narh..accept the fact,
i scared to face changes also..

什么时候"对不起"变得CHEAP 了?

这个话题,是今天早上,
一个朋友对我说"对不起"时,
想起的..

虽然不想提起,但还是说一下我的感觉吧..
如果当事人不高兴,我也没办法..
因为我觉得我根本不了解她要的是什么?

这件事,是由我引起的..
我模模糊糊下忘记了答应的事情,
到现在我都还不是很确定我到底做错什么..
到底那天有没有告诉她我那天没空..
BLUR BLUR DE
事发后,
我连忙道歉..
说了对不起..
结果她回我一句类似
"你对我说对不起让我觉得对不起很ｃｈｅａｐ"

哇靠～第一次给人家酱讲。。
我难得道歉，却被人家呛回。。
算了吧。。我错我错。。

现在，我们没联络了。。
因为都开始各忙各的。。
我也不大“敢”去找她了。。
等下又做错事，道歉还给人呛。。
既然她也摆出那种冷冷的表情，
那就算了吧。。

反正大家读通个大学，有的是见面机会。。
最多不是不道歉咯。。
哈哈。。。

但是我还是不明白。。
这时代，几时让对不起这三个字变得cheap 的？

hmm...
我老了。。
哈哈。。

Formal?any comment?haha..tq ya~

My hair being modified----->thanks to Benjamin and Bong~

Posting~look like a weird guy

Am i naughty?hahah...weird~

Formal wear with a standard pose-.-

ROMPAK Goldon's white coat..haha.

well..a bit late dy...
bt still wanna upload it...
haha...
i wear this last week,i think...haha...
any comment regarding my formal wear?
haha..good or bad ?
post it here...
let me discuss mo~
i hv been single for years dy...
haha..gv me a chance to improve

微笑吧~

今天,
一个人,
一个朋友..
突然微笑地看着我,
说"我要请朋友吃饭了"

我看着他..
心里明白了...
又一个朋友告别单身了..
哈哈..
真替他高兴..

有人好让你爱时,尽力去爱吧..
有人爱你的时候,享受被爱吧..

加油!
看得出 ,
你的微笑,是甜的..

谢谢你第一个告诉我..
哈哈..我有点骄傲呢~~

SMILE~

话说080808

08年08月08日,晚上08点08分，你在哪里呢？
许多人都守候在电视机前面，看着４年才一次的奥运会．．
而且今年地点是在我们华人的地盘－－－北京．．

然而，
我在这时候，
不是在电视机前面，
我错过了奥运会的开幕，错过了奥运会的节令鼓表演，
２００８个人的节令鼓！！

但我没后悔，
因为我在帮朋友庆祝生日．．
在制造美好的回忆．．
虽然奥运会很难的．．但以朋友一起庆祝生日的机会更难得．．

拿了一些video,录制了很多搞笑的画面．．
还有一些我丢脸的画面．．
但没关系，大家开心就好．．．
哈哈．．．

希望大家不介意我将video放上来吧．．．
哈哈．．．

INITIAL D 版本的 你是我的宝贝

头文字D版的 你是我的宝贝

one day..when i boring and explore my computer..
i saw a video..

PS* HE NT ACT COOL IN THE VIDEO,HE DUNNO TAT I AM TAKING THE VIDEO!!!

hmm..
this video r as above..
well..then for i talk about this fellow ba..

this fellow a..
his name is SHUN YII
ppl call him ant..
and in 1 camp,he is the cleanliness officer..
so we call him TOILET ANT..
however..
he is a nice guy..
a nice friend..
and he like to SING!!
but actually he has a nice voice to sing
he will help a friend no matter wht..

but..for him..
he jus dun have his own confidence..
i wonder whr did it gone..
hope he can found it..

from a view of friend,
he is a good friend,
and for me,
i call him brota!!

FRIENDSHIP~~will nt end even though we 2 r far apart..

SMILE~
Take care~

Today debate

Today debate is the funniest debate i ever had..
haha..
keep laughing...dunno why..
well..
unfortunately the time is insufficient..
the lecturer say wanna gv extra time,but cannot..
haha..

sad..

however..any1 gt any comments on the debate,please leave a comment here...
tell me wht's wrong or how was it for U~
so that i can improve,
please stat that who u r,
thanks~

ANY COMMENTS ARE WELCOME

SMILE~

进入100篇文章了!!!

yahoo~
不知不觉我已经打了100个文章..
好难得呢..
会持续那么久..

这个部落格陪伴我过了1年多的风风雨雨..
从友情,学业,家庭 到 爱情...
哈哈..
还有许多困难..
可能就是因为这个私人空间,
让我有地方发泄..
导致我就算遇到困难,
也不会崩溃吧..

哈哈...
还有..
明天,我就要辩论了..
是负责用嘴巴杀人的那个角色..
哈哈...

希望明天一切顺利..
陈思男!加油..
没有什么事,难得到你的..

SMILE~
BlackTan

一封讯息

如果你不爱一个人,请放手,好让别人有机会爱她..
如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己爱别人,
别人有的东西你再喜欢也不属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃.
人生有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害..

有一天,
我收到了一封讯息...
内容如上...
看了..
已经静下来的心,
感觉有如一滴水滴入一个宁静的湖面..

如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己爱别人,

的确,她放弃了我,我是应该放开自己..
好让我自己可以去爱别人...
但是,可能那条绳索..绑到太紧了..
要解开,不是不可能,而是要花点时间...

别人有的东西你再喜欢也不属于你的,

那天,她有了男朋友..
就算我再喜欢她,她也不会记得我..
算了,反正我也预料的到的...

有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃.

对阿..就像那十八个礼物..
我放弃了..

人生有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害..

在我身上,没发生过很多爱情..
但也没让爱情伤害到我..
我接受的了..

这封简单的讯息,
可能只是朋友想分享这封讯息..
但却对我有很大的意义..

对我而言..
爱情没有对错,

人生没有绝对,

所以,她没错,
她做了好的决定..
她的决定,对两方面都好..

大家高兴就好..
希望当我和她见面时,
能够如朋友般交谈吧...

SMILE~
Black

Trial

Today is the starting of SPM Trial,
well..i hv a test on today also...
but...

HORRIBLE,TERRIBLE, and....VEGETABLE!!!

Today Chemistry jus hardly know how to do..
But math...See the paper also know i gotta repeat the course again..haha

However..past things dun think le..

haha..

WELL,
I HOPE EVERYONE WHO INVOLVE IN THE TRIAL DO THEIR BEST..

GOOD LUCK FOR ALL OF YOU...

FOR PPL WHO SAW IT,PLEASE SENT MY REGARDS TO OTHERS..
THANKS~~~



SMILE~
Black Tan

08-08-08

today is the opening of China Beijing OLIMPIC..
narh...Today is a good day..

BUT i gotta hv my BIO test..
sad sad sad..
haha...

NARH...
today is ANNIE birthday...haha...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ANNIE>>>

SMILE!

CONTINUED~2 1st floor..slow cancer stage!!

after we see the serious type cancer..now see wee a slow cancer..
this floor..it wont kill u in short temporary,but for long run...
u will die..haha..


those rubbish is there for weeks..
especially the last container thing..
is it thr sence week 2..about 1st-7th july...
till now..
OMG...luckily i nt in the second floor..die because of bacteria..

problem? IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN ON ME...

hmmm..

one nite..about 4 am...my phone rang...
a message sent by a gal..
she say she face some love problem..

few days later,
one of my friend,being rejected...

few days before,
my friend feel sorry as he hurted a gal..

Now,
one of my friend is in a sweet time..
sometime worry of her,and others..

NARH...
I feel quite lucky..
As i doesnt face this problem...

At UTAR,
I doesnt fall in love with anyone..
my heart..still full of smtg..i dunno wht is it...
bt it is full..

Thus,
i wont worry of any gals i like,
i wont scared being rejected,
i wont scared hurt them...

every worries or scared
are comes from friends...

However,
I asked myself also..

IS IT GOOD TAT DOESNT FALL IN LOVE WITH ANYONE?
dunno ler...

i will never face this problem..
how nice is it?haha...
but..,is it lucky,or i jus a coward tat scared to face problem like this???

narh..
pity me..

good luck

today is the competition day for badminton...
bong got involved in it...
well..at here
i wanna say...
good luck for all of them...

GAMBATEK YA!